duke space: the plain truth
On the 13th a buddy of mine made a post about women and the truth. It's basically about how the only truth women are interested in are the truths as they see it.
Hi, ladies! You always say you're looking for an honest man. Well, you've found one, but you probably won't like what he has to say. Hey, at least that's honest. We men are lonely, and basically looking for something to do.
I must say, I agree with most of what he has to say. However, in my experience, most of the women I come in contact with can appreciate the honesty or have just become accustomed to the truth. Have you seen the Twix commercial where the very voluptuous woman asks her husband if her capris make her ass look fat and he shoves the Twix bar into his mouth? Hell yeah your ass looks fat! Is that supposed to be bad?
Well here's the deal, as blunt as I can be, I'd rather hurt you with the truth than for you to be hurt later because I lied or withheld the truth or whatever some of us are calling it these days.
He also talks about what y'll say you like to do to get our attention and what it is we really like to do. OK, maybe I'm not a typical guy, but I like:
- Long walks anywhere, nowhere, everywhere. Being in a cab all the time sucks ass. Alternatively, we can take a long train or bus ride.
- Shopping. I love shopping with a female or without. I like shopping as much as any female, maybe more. I like shopping for women's underwear, especially if she trying them on for me or if we gonna celebrate a special occasion.
- Hanging out with her friends, not really family. Families tend to judge. Friends do hate sometimes. If they like you they will support you too when y'all fight or even after she isn't around.
Recently, I have been running into females who either can't accept or understand the truth. Stephanie is an example. She implored me to tell her what was on my mind especially as it related to her and when I did she shut down. The truth should have enhanced us, but it ultimately led to our swift end. All I said was that I didn't want to hurt her.
Then there are of course the women who can't tell the truth to save their lives. If you want the truth you have to be willing to give it.